Family photos are cherished keepsakes, but getting young children to cooperate during a photo session can sometimes feel like a challenge. If you’re planning a session with a toddler or preschooler, a little preparation can go a long way in ensuring a smooth and enjoyable experience. Here are five tips to help you get your little one ready for their close-up.


Do: Pick the Right Time
 Don’t: Schedule Around Adult Convenience


Timing is crucial when photographing children. Young kids tend to be happiest and most cooperative when they’re well-rested and fed. Aim to schedule your session at a time that aligns with your child’s natural rhythms—typically after a nap and a meal. Your photographer’s availability will also play a role in determining the session time. If your photographer uses an online booking calendar like this one, and none of the available slots suit your child’s schedule, reach out via email or text to inquire about availability during a more suitable time. Most photographers will do their best to accommodate your needs. After all, a happy child leads to better photos!


Do: Make It Fun
Don’t: Put Pressure on Them


Keep the atmosphere light and playful! Toddlers and preschoolers respond best when they feel like they’re just having fun. Let them bring a favorite toy, and be prepared to play games or sing songs to keep them engaged. Avoid setting strict expectations for perfect poses or big smiles—if your child feels pressured, they may resist participating. Focus on enjoying the moment, and let their natural smiles shine through.


Do: Dress Them in Comfortable Clothes
Don’t: Force Uncomfortable or New Outfits


While you might be tempted to dress your child in something brand new and fancy, comfort is key. Choose outfits that your child is familiar with and feels good wearing. If they’re uncomfortable, it will show in the photos. Soft fabrics in colors that complement the setting will help your child feel at ease. Keep it simple.


Do: Talk to Them About the Session
Don’t: Spring It on Them Last Minute


Start talking to your child about the session the day you schedule it and continue to talk to them often about it leading up to it. Let them know they’ll be taking pictures with the family and that it’s going to be a fun activity. Get them involved in choosing their outfit. Talk about the photographer. Go to your photographer's website and find their picture and show it to your child. If they know what to expect, they’re more likely to feel comfortable and excited. On the other hand, surprising them with the session can lead to confusion and reluctance.


Do: Bring Snacks and Comfort Items
Don’t: Forget to Take Breaks


A well-timed snack can work wonders! Pack some of your child’s favorite non-messy snacks to keep their energy up. ( no Cheetos or any candy that will turn their tongue colors and no red juice moustaches) Also, consider bringing a beloved comfort item like a blanket or stuffed animal—these can be great for calming nerves or providing a bit of security. A good photographer will schedule enough time for your session so that you can take short breaks during the session if your child needs a moment to recharge. A little patience and flexibility can help everyone stay happy and cooperative.



Family photo sessions with young children don’t have to be stressful. By following these do’s and don’ts, you can help your little one feel more comfortable and engaged, leading to beautiful photos that capture their true personality. Remember, the best moments often come when everyone is relaxed and having fun, so take a deep breath, enjoy the experience, and let your child be themselves. 


With a bit of preparation and the right mindset, your family photo session will be a success!